Monday, March 16, 2009
The Interview With God
Saturday, February 14, 2009
A night that is so meaningful!
Sometimes it is just too hard to explain things that happen in life, no matter how hard you try to find one! At the end, we all conclude it as FATE. I am experiencing an event in my life that most of us will call it as fate...:-)
I met this guy 3 years ago in one of the toastmasters meeting, when I was the President for my home club. At that time he was a newbies in toastmasters arena and was already made the treasurer of his club. My memory bank tells me i do not have special impression about this guy except knowing that he is 130KM away from KL and he is with a security firm. Oh ya, he looked pretty cool and was so so so quiet. Wonder if he ever talks...
Thereafter, his name card is so well kept in my cardholder album. I guess my name card ended the same at his end. And we were just too busy with life and I have totally forgotten about this guy.
Somehow last year, dunno why, out of the blue we get reconnected again and straight away I could recall this super quiet guy that I met before. There were many occasions that we could actually meet up but somehow I was either too busy or I purposely took a rain check without telling him any reasons. I didn't know how he reacted each time but I know I just moved on with my busy working life.
As we continue to stay in touch, close touch i mean, strangely and slowly we got together, one day we realized cupid has actually strike us! The then quiet guy became my partner. I could not imagine this! But it is REAL and unexplainable that I am sharing a lot of things in life with him. It is so wonderful when you have a soulmate that you could share your smile and sorrowness!
Last night, we attended the Valentine Nite organized by the toastmasters clubs in Mandarin Division. Last night was the most memorable and meaningful valentine night I ever had! Towards the half of the event, my partner was telling me that someone has requested him to be the magician and he has to perform on stage in a while. And he told me he tried hard to squeeze for ideas. And he looked tremendously in stress as if he is having a hard time thinking of ideas. But I am worst off, trying to help with the ideas but to no avail.
The MC was calling his name, time for his magic show! Well, I was still innocently thinking of how is he going to handle the magic show, he is not a magician! He then asked for his prop to be carried up on stage, and that convince me even more that he is into the magic show! Wonder how he is going to do it! Well, I must admit I was too innocent! He had a big paper box on the stage, but nobody know what was inside. He was appealing to the crowd that if they could show their encouragement to him, he would perform even better. Clever chap, that is how he garnered the loudest clap from the crowd without telling them to clap! I learnt this!
He was asking for a lady volunteer to assist him and one of the female member volunteered. He said "Your height is not so right for me, I need someone else." He then said "Can I invite Lay Kun to be the volunteer?" The crowd responded and I accepted the call...I walked forward. I was asked to stand on the stage facing a long wooden panel that is full of Chinese Caligraphy. But I wasn't interested on what is written on the wall instead what is going to happen next.. and his 2 helpers were busy taking instruction to cover my vision with a big piece of cloth! The pink cloth is big enough to wrap me entirely. The cloth is suppose to block my view from what is happening behind me...and the BOX!
But in the end, he asked his 2 helpers to drop the cloth and asked me to turn facing the box! "Can you help me to open this box!" Guess what I saw??? A big bouquet of flowers, I mean really BIG, it is a bunchful! I must tell you that my heart was beaten so fast when I saw that and I know what is going to happen next. My tears was rolling in my eyes and I was holding it hard! He then hold the bunch of flowers, knelt down and positioned himself. At that time, I didnt know what was happening around me and among the friends. He put his mic right and said:
"丽君，你愿意嫁给我做我太太吗？"
It was so clear and wishful!
I was so touched and I never thought that was his magic show! My tears bank was swelling and burst when I can't hold it anymore. My dear, we have almost 70 people (if I got it correctly) witnessing his proposal and I am the focus right now...my answer!
I bent down and accepted the bouquet of flowers from him...and I said through the mic:
"我愿意!"
My tears was rolling down my cheek non-stop...that was the tears of joy and happiness! He gave me a peck on my cheek and he moved on and said..."I knew Lay Kun 3 years ago in one of the meeting. Last year we get re-connected when I was looking for a test speaker for the speech contest (someone from the crowd interjected that he was actually looking for a wife :-))...That is how we get started and it is blossoming until now. Thank you for all your encouragement in helping me to complete this!"
I could not hear much about what others said as I was too excited and happy! As we walked down from the stage, we received lotsa congratulations from the crowd!
That moment was so capturing and precious, I felt truly great about it! Not only for the surprise that my fiance has given to me, also on our sincerity and commitment in bringing our relationship thus far. Now that we are committing for a family!
I am attracted to the good values in him and I am sure we are able to walk through life with continuos support and encouragement conveyed to each other.
It is a night that will always close to my heart!
I met this guy 3 years ago in one of the toastmasters meeting, when I was the President for my home club. At that time he was a newbies in toastmasters arena and was already made the treasurer of his club. My memory bank tells me i do not have special impression about this guy except knowing that he is 130KM away from KL and he is with a security firm. Oh ya, he looked pretty cool and was so so so quiet. Wonder if he ever talks...
Thereafter, his name card is so well kept in my cardholder album. I guess my name card ended the same at his end. And we were just too busy with life and I have totally forgotten about this guy.
Somehow last year, dunno why, out of the blue we get reconnected again and straight away I could recall this super quiet guy that I met before. There were many occasions that we could actually meet up but somehow I was either too busy or I purposely took a rain check without telling him any reasons. I didn't know how he reacted each time but I know I just moved on with my busy working life.
As we continue to stay in touch, close touch i mean, strangely and slowly we got together, one day we realized cupid has actually strike us! The then quiet guy became my partner. I could not imagine this! But it is REAL and unexplainable that I am sharing a lot of things in life with him. It is so wonderful when you have a soulmate that you could share your smile and sorrowness!
Last night, we attended the Valentine Nite organized by the toastmasters clubs in Mandarin Division. Last night was the most memorable and meaningful valentine night I ever had! Towards the half of the event, my partner was telling me that someone has requested him to be the magician and he has to perform on stage in a while. And he told me he tried hard to squeeze for ideas. And he looked tremendously in stress as if he is having a hard time thinking of ideas. But I am worst off, trying to help with the ideas but to no avail.
The MC was calling his name, time for his magic show! Well, I was still innocently thinking of how is he going to handle the magic show, he is not a magician! He then asked for his prop to be carried up on stage, and that convince me even more that he is into the magic show! Wonder how he is going to do it! Well, I must admit I was too innocent! He had a big paper box on the stage, but nobody know what was inside. He was appealing to the crowd that if they could show their encouragement to him, he would perform even better. Clever chap, that is how he garnered the loudest clap from the crowd without telling them to clap! I learnt this!
He was asking for a lady volunteer to assist him and one of the female member volunteered. He said "Your height is not so right for me, I need someone else." He then said "Can I invite Lay Kun to be the volunteer?" The crowd responded and I accepted the call...I walked forward. I was asked to stand on the stage facing a long wooden panel that is full of Chinese Caligraphy. But I wasn't interested on what is written on the wall instead what is going to happen next.. and his 2 helpers were busy taking instruction to cover my vision with a big piece of cloth! The pink cloth is big enough to wrap me entirely. The cloth is suppose to block my view from what is happening behind me...and the BOX!
But in the end, he asked his 2 helpers to drop the cloth and asked me to turn facing the box! "Can you help me to open this box!" Guess what I saw??? A big bouquet of flowers, I mean really BIG, it is a bunchful! I must tell you that my heart was beaten so fast when I saw that and I know what is going to happen next. My tears was rolling in my eyes and I was holding it hard! He then hold the bunch of flowers, knelt down and positioned himself. At that time, I didnt know what was happening around me and among the friends. He put his mic right and said:
"丽君，你愿意嫁给我做我太太吗？"
It was so clear and wishful!
I was so touched and I never thought that was his magic show! My tears bank was swelling and burst when I can't hold it anymore. My dear, we have almost 70 people (if I got it correctly) witnessing his proposal and I am the focus right now...my answer!
I bent down and accepted the bouquet of flowers from him...and I said through the mic:
"我愿意!"
My tears was rolling down my cheek non-stop...that was the tears of joy and happiness! He gave me a peck on my cheek and he moved on and said..."I knew Lay Kun 3 years ago in one of the meeting. Last year we get re-connected when I was looking for a test speaker for the speech contest (someone from the crowd interjected that he was actually looking for a wife :-))...That is how we get started and it is blossoming until now. Thank you for all your encouragement in helping me to complete this!"
I could not hear much about what others said as I was too excited and happy! As we walked down from the stage, we received lotsa congratulations from the crowd!
That moment was so capturing and precious, I felt truly great about it! Not only for the surprise that my fiance has given to me, also on our sincerity and commitment in bringing our relationship thus far. Now that we are committing for a family!
I am attracted to the good values in him and I am sure we are able to walk through life with continuos support and encouragement conveyed to each other.
It is a night that will always close to my heart!
Sunday, September 28, 2008
What a Sunday!
Yesterday while chewing my food during my dinner, suddenly I felt there was a stoney thing in my mouth and it irritated me. I admit that I am a fast eater and I swallow fast too...guess what the stoney thing went through my throat and landed in my stomach within just seconds...I am just too fast! I really had no idea what was that thingy! Well, since it is already ended up in my stomach, who cares...this fellow should be out from my body tomorrow if "he" could survive his tour in my stomach...haha.
After dinner, I sat in front of my laptop continued with my unfinish work...and out of sudden, another stoney thing in my mouth. It was so hard as I was trying to bite it...Oh no, when I took that thingy out of my mouth, I realized that it wasn't the normal stone...it was the filing from one of my tooth...oh no! The stoney thingy that ended up in my stomach must be from the same tooth.
And I could feel a real big hole for one of the upper tooth! No, no, no! Oh no, nightmare for me that I have to visit dentist! I hate the feeling of sitting on the dentist chair watching him holding his tools...and even worse the drilling sound...eeee...so eeeery. But I could also recall my last appointment with another dentist who was the one did the filing for this tooth. He said "I am trying to save this tooth, but its condition is not so good already. If this "guy" really turn worst later then we have no choice but to extract it. But for the mean time you could still have him."
Then I was telling myself that I need to visit the nearest dentist the earliest possible on the next day, which is today. Here I am at this clinic near my house, I noticed the doctor is also a surgeon. And I had this feeling that I am going to loose this "guy".
I got myself registered, called in and sat on the dentist chair. "Your tooth is badly infected, and you can't do filing anymore but to extract it." See! I knew it! And the surgeon said: "But this extraction is not a normal extraction as your tooth is way beneath the gum. I have to do a surgery to extract this." What? Surgery? And I started imagining the cutter slicing my gum! Oh no!
But the doctor assured me that I won't have any pain during the surgery. What to do, I have no other option and I said "OK lah". Guess what the doctor told me next..."By the way this is not a normal extraction and it is slightly costly, the charges is RM150 for the surgery." mmm...smart doctor, he must have afraid that I will argue about the price after the surgery. If I refuse to pay and he can't UNDO the surgery...hehe...Whatever he said I agreed as I need to solve this.
And before he starts with the surgery, he ask me to sign a letter that state he will not be liable for any...that arise from the surgery. Cool! Go ahead!
The following 20 minutes were the battling between the surgeon with my infected tooth...the surgeon must have hard time pulling this "guy" out...I could hear some loud funny cracking sound. The doctor must have afraid that I will get fainted halfway hearing the sound, he told me "Don't worry with the noise, everything is fine." mmmm, very comforting! I wasn't scared but just wish this over soon.
Finally the surgeon won the battle and the "patient" survived too! Hehe, otherwise you won't be reading this blog now...:-) I got a few stitches....A FEW STITCHES??? This never happen to me, first time that I received stiches of any kind and I need to return to the clinic to remove the stitches...what a good experience. :-) I brought home big bags of medicine, you name it...painkiller, antibiotic, swollen pil, mouthrinse and cotton.
The surgeon said you cannot go to sleep now, you have to sit straight and bite the cotton for at least 2 hours. Haha, I am not worry of this! I am going to shopping mall after this, looking for a few items for my club's event! So I will have no chance to sleep! What a hyperactive "patient"...haha.
I never expect this on this lovely Sunday. But somehow it has made a memorable Sunday! :-) And now I can't talk properly, so I better shut up!
After dinner, I sat in front of my laptop continued with my unfinish work...and out of sudden, another stoney thing in my mouth. It was so hard as I was trying to bite it...Oh no, when I took that thingy out of my mouth, I realized that it wasn't the normal stone...it was the filing from one of my tooth...oh no! The stoney thingy that ended up in my stomach must be from the same tooth.
And I could feel a real big hole for one of the upper tooth! No, no, no! Oh no, nightmare for me that I have to visit dentist! I hate the feeling of sitting on the dentist chair watching him holding his tools...and even worse the drilling sound...eeee...so eeeery. But I could also recall my last appointment with another dentist who was the one did the filing for this tooth. He said "I am trying to save this tooth, but its condition is not so good already. If this "guy" really turn worst later then we have no choice but to extract it. But for the mean time you could still have him."
Then I was telling myself that I need to visit the nearest dentist the earliest possible on the next day, which is today. Here I am at this clinic near my house, I noticed the doctor is also a surgeon. And I had this feeling that I am going to loose this "guy".
I got myself registered, called in and sat on the dentist chair. "Your tooth is badly infected, and you can't do filing anymore but to extract it." See! I knew it! And the surgeon said: "But this extraction is not a normal extraction as your tooth is way beneath the gum. I have to do a surgery to extract this." What? Surgery? And I started imagining the cutter slicing my gum! Oh no!
But the doctor assured me that I won't have any pain during the surgery. What to do, I have no other option and I said "OK lah". Guess what the doctor told me next..."By the way this is not a normal extraction and it is slightly costly, the charges is RM150 for the surgery." mmm...smart doctor, he must have afraid that I will argue about the price after the surgery. If I refuse to pay and he can't UNDO the surgery...hehe...Whatever he said I agreed as I need to solve this.
And before he starts with the surgery, he ask me to sign a letter that state he will not be liable for any...that arise from the surgery. Cool! Go ahead!
The following 20 minutes were the battling between the surgeon with my infected tooth...the surgeon must have hard time pulling this "guy" out...I could hear some loud funny cracking sound. The doctor must have afraid that I will get fainted halfway hearing the sound, he told me "Don't worry with the noise, everything is fine." mmmm, very comforting! I wasn't scared but just wish this over soon.
Finally the surgeon won the battle and the "patient" survived too! Hehe, otherwise you won't be reading this blog now...:-) I got a few stitches....A FEW STITCHES??? This never happen to me, first time that I received stiches of any kind and I need to return to the clinic to remove the stitches...what a good experience. :-) I brought home big bags of medicine, you name it...painkiller, antibiotic, swollen pil, mouthrinse and cotton.
The surgeon said you cannot go to sleep now, you have to sit straight and bite the cotton for at least 2 hours. Haha, I am not worry of this! I am going to shopping mall after this, looking for a few items for my club's event! So I will have no chance to sleep! What a hyperactive "patient"...haha.
I never expect this on this lovely Sunday. But somehow it has made a memorable Sunday! :-) And now I can't talk properly, so I better shut up!
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Moving on...
It was such a great day I had today! Ever since I have chosen to follow my heart to embark on what I am passionate about, I feel really good about it! I had the similar feeling many years back when I was still involved in training and other public training for my previous company.
But as I moved on with my career in other areas, I wasn't having the same feeling! It was kind of weird that it was actually sucking away all my energy! Previously I was really an energetic person, I seems to have lotsa adrenalin to take what is in front of me. And I was always cheerful...smile is indeed my hallmark wherever I go...but I lost it somehow all those throughout these years!
Where did all these traits gone? I don't know...but I just could not regain that no matter how hard I tried. Well, I battled for quite a while and at the end I have decided to make a crazy turn in my life.
Haha, I don't know. Some might think that I might be crazy on such a decision and some said during such a bad time?...especially when the petrol price is high, the cost of living is shooting up, the economy is still uncertain, and US is having a slump! But I thought it is just the right time for me to move on. So I chose to move on fully into training! To me I believe we need to just move on once we have made that decision, why wait?
But I do have a bunch of friends who said "Yes, you should! Good for you!" Well, it is all in the mind, it is all depend on how we look at things :-)
I could foresee the journey is going to be very exciting! And I am ready to experience the process :-) for me the process matter the most...no matter how you will still get to an end result. If we enjoy and render our best during the process, I am sure we have just done a seat confirmation for success...
And obviously, I am gaining back my energy and cheerfulness! Yeah!!!
But as I moved on with my career in other areas, I wasn't having the same feeling! It was kind of weird that it was actually sucking away all my energy! Previously I was really an energetic person, I seems to have lotsa adrenalin to take what is in front of me. And I was always cheerful...smile is indeed my hallmark wherever I go...but I lost it somehow all those throughout these years!
Where did all these traits gone? I don't know...but I just could not regain that no matter how hard I tried. Well, I battled for quite a while and at the end I have decided to make a crazy turn in my life.
Haha, I don't know. Some might think that I might be crazy on such a decision and some said during such a bad time?...especially when the petrol price is high, the cost of living is shooting up, the economy is still uncertain, and US is having a slump! But I thought it is just the right time for me to move on. So I chose to move on fully into training! To me I believe we need to just move on once we have made that decision, why wait?
But I do have a bunch of friends who said "Yes, you should! Good for you!" Well, it is all in the mind, it is all depend on how we look at things :-)
I could foresee the journey is going to be very exciting! And I am ready to experience the process :-) for me the process matter the most...no matter how you will still get to an end result. If we enjoy and render our best during the process, I am sure we have just done a seat confirmation for success...
And obviously, I am gaining back my energy and cheerfulness! Yeah!!!
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
I am testing on my Windows Live Weblog...
I have just discovered that I can actually update my blogger page from Windows Live Space! This is amazing and I am testing on it now. I think this features will be great in giving all of us blogger more flexibility in our posting.
We could have it in various types of font, type setting, insert tables, pictures, insert tag, map, video and etc etc. Whole list of them and I am yet to explore all.
Just check this out! It is so EXCITING!!! :-)
Wednesday, September 03, 2008
Wow! That is lovely!
Something wonderful to share...
My mother only received her primary six education some ages ago. She totally could not understand English and we her 3 lovely daughters use to have this funny idea...why not teach our mother English. Of course something conversational would be just fine.
Nothing formal happen in the house but English is one of the medium that her daughters communicate at home. Guess what! Without us realizing it my mother actually pick up a little of Queen's language.
Out of sudden today she was telling me this in English...stay cool..."You take the paper outside." That is lovely! I could not imagine how could this happen. That was a great moment that put all of us at home into big laughter, a real big one that make us rolling!
This proved that not only the young toddler has active listening, elderly group too! And my mother could actually understand some of my tele-conversation with my friends. It is a big wow! I don't know how she picked that but what I know it is through observation and listening.
This has created some light moments in my family! There will be more to come as my mother and her 3 daughters are just simply like good friends...you know how good friends talk right... :-)
I told her to continue learning English and be daring in speaking...who knows I might accidentally have a caucasian fiance then communication will not be an issue. :-p We both burst into laughter!!!
My mother only received her primary six education some ages ago. She totally could not understand English and we her 3 lovely daughters use to have this funny idea...why not teach our mother English. Of course something conversational would be just fine.
Nothing formal happen in the house but English is one of the medium that her daughters communicate at home. Guess what! Without us realizing it my mother actually pick up a little of Queen's language.
Out of sudden today she was telling me this in English...stay cool..."You take the paper outside." That is lovely! I could not imagine how could this happen. That was a great moment that put all of us at home into big laughter, a real big one that make us rolling!
This proved that not only the young toddler has active listening, elderly group too! And my mother could actually understand some of my tele-conversation with my friends. It is a big wow! I don't know how she picked that but what I know it is through observation and listening.
This has created some light moments in my family! There will be more to come as my mother and her 3 daughters are just simply like good friends...you know how good friends talk right... :-)
I told her to continue learning English and be daring in speaking...who knows I might accidentally have a caucasian fiance then communication will not be an issue. :-p We both burst into laughter!!!
Thursday, July 17, 2008
What I have realized!
How many leaders actually realized the importance of human capital development? Very often you see successful company with its glorious track record and performances. But ever wonder what has really make this company to attain such achievement?
Is it because the products are really good? Is it because the company has good customer service? Is it because the customers has no other options but to choose for that company? ...... Customers are definitely has more than one option especially in this competitive business world. But what make those company succeeded. A good product or good service does not happen by itself. You need people to handle that and make it happen!
Often when a company is acquired, does the acquirer only take the products and the customer databases and leave the rest behind? That is not a smart way of investing! You need people to realize the vision and mission of the company. You need the people to keep the business running.
There is a lot to take note in Human Capital Development and it does not happen just overnight. There are a lot of passion that you got to invest and a lot of careful thought behind the execution. Hence since the starting point, we should know what kind of culture that we are building and what are those values that we preaches for the company.
Human Capital Development is all about unvealing the potential within the staff.
Is it because the products are really good? Is it because the company has good customer service? Is it because the customers has no other options but to choose for that company? ...... Customers are definitely has more than one option especially in this competitive business world. But what make those company succeeded. A good product or good service does not happen by itself. You need people to handle that and make it happen!
Often when a company is acquired, does the acquirer only take the products and the customer databases and leave the rest behind? That is not a smart way of investing! You need people to realize the vision and mission of the company. You need the people to keep the business running.
There is a lot to take note in Human Capital Development and it does not happen just overnight. There are a lot of passion that you got to invest and a lot of careful thought behind the execution. Hence since the starting point, we should know what kind of culture that we are building and what are those values that we preaches for the company.
Human Capital Development is all about unvealing the potential within the staff.
Friday, April 14, 2006
Life Transformation
This was taken in one of the toastmasters contest. Toastmaster has changed my entire life and it has been a great transformation for me. Before and after, so much difference....
Thursday, April 13, 2006
Fish
Life is full of challenges since the day we came to this world. Since the day we start learning all that we should have, and it is a mysterious journey that we don't know what is gonna be next. My young days were well spent in a small and secluded village. A village that is rich in memories, so much that I need some memory upgrade sometimes.
I have the biggest playground compared to kids nowadays, I have the whole village, every single things in the village were my playmates. I weaved through the coconut trees, fruit trees, trees that I still do not know of their names, crops and more. I can still smell the freshness of the air with all the green leafy creatures around. A morning stroll was the best thing to do before I start my day many years back. Looking at the morning mist, my mind and soul totally sunk in it. I could feel them!
Madam cow was trying her best to chew as much of grass as she can. She was waving at me with her tail. The rooster was leading his army team patronising the backyard. The tresspassed sometimes to my neighbours compound but realising that was not their teritory, they came back.
The hen was patiently waiting for her newborn baby. The dogs was swaying to the left and right, waving their tail and said what a wonderful morning.
When I was really young, i used to run topless in the neighbourhood. Well, who cares if a small kid is without a top. Nobody even want to bother that, and it is also a sign of innocence and purity.
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